Through intense vaginal investigations, I have realized that many women don't have regular orgasms ( for shame). Now me being a cocky dude, I want to say it's all their fault. But truthfully it's not, it's the men they're jumpin' off with. Now you say "what does this have to do with the better making of men (Mr Swagger's moto)?" It's about getting dudes to step their punany-lovin' up for the greater good. So the main question is -why don't women hit their climax and what are men doing wrong? Being in a relationship changes that and allows you to openly discuss your sex life. A simple question of "if she came" goes a long way. The Bonnie to my Clyde keeps it real so I know how to get that cherry popping.Dr. Ruth says that a woman that regularly masturbates has more and better orgasms. Now I agree with her, but I think there is more to this topic. Guys got to use the one trick a woman can't really fight, EAT THAT P*SSY!!! I'm telling you eating the pleasure pallet always makes the party better. Usually it's better to start there, get an orgasm and then handle business. She gets an orgasm and gets more excited and then it's easier for the second. But still I need to know why so many women don't get orgasms on the regular. I know for a fact* that most women like to be f*cked, not to be made love to. Making love is cute and sensual and all that crap, but when it's orgasm time, good f*cking handles the business. Ladies, let's be honest about this, you want to be F*cked. You want him to take it, eat it, and murder it ( and the occasional Huck-a-Buck). Oh Boy!!! An orgasm is a 50/50 deal, it's just as much mental as it is physical. If a girl is not feeling you, it's going to be 10 times harder to get an orgasm. So you got to get her excited, do something different, eat the pie, and give her the business. Ladies, please enlighten the male readers with what gets your body right... without the mention of money, Kim. (readers from this week know who Kim is) Fellas, drop a jewel for the inexperienced ones amongst your ranks.
Class Dismissed
*by fact, i mean that I'm guessing
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My favorite topic... the Mighty O. It is indeed tragic that so many women don't have them on a regular basis. *weeps* It's a bad night if I don't at least hit 3-4, but I've come to realize that I'm amongst the gifted. But I agree, it is both a physical AND mental thing.
There is no 1 magic path to the Mighty O, and the key is to know what does it for THAT woman, especially for the O resistant women. I don't always get there from head (I'm more of a g-spots... yes I said SPOTS... girl), so don't automatically classify that as the key to world peace. It's a two part endeavor: First is on the woman HERSELF to know what does it for her, the second is on the man to pay attention to what does it for her. Women who are too inhibited to masturbate to find out what gets them THERE are more likely to be women too uptight to get to the Mighty O in the first place. Guys, there's nothing you can do about that..... take the L and move on, and ladies, quit being so uptight and stubborn if you want to make it to the Promise Land. Second part, men you have to ask how she prefers it, or at least take context cues. If you get a favorable reaction to something you just did, KEEP DOING IT. Don't just be going at it oblivious as to how her body is reacting. And don't be afraid of the follow up critique.... ask her "Was that hard enough/soft enough/too rough/too gentle?" and, like I was, she'll be so caught off guard that you'll likely shock her into an honest answer. Because 97.3% don't ask... extra kudos for you.
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I agree 100%, I think that goes along with what I said about talking to your mate. I'm telling you, we are going to change someones sex life today. This is so necessary to stop world hunger (oh boy). Dudes listen up and learn something.
Mr. Swagger, I loveeeee this post.
It's funny that you bring this post up, b/c I was speaking to my one of my girlfriends last night and she mentioned to me yet again that she doesn't mast erbate and I'm like, you still haven't touched yourself? At her tender age of 36 (were both 36) She has not had an Orgasm. I on the other hand enjoy masterbating, and I totally agree with Dr. Ruth, b/c you need to know your body, once you find that spot and your man is doing his thang, OHHHHH MAN what a feeling! So today, I give out Condolences out to all the females out there that don't reach it, b/c GOTDAMN, it's a Beautiful thing to be eaten out.
Sadly, I thought this post was going to give up some secrets of the power of p*ssy and how it affects men.
Who's not eating nowadays? It gets the party started.
Ani,
We will have that but the in the last week alone we had 3 posts on topics similar just from another perspective. Don't worry, we got you.
Real talk, go back and re-read the first comment. We as men can be clueless and she has given the blueprints! Pay attention.
Good post
Today's enlightenment from The Dutchess...
#1. Fellas, listen to J.McFly & Anesidora, you gotta pay attention to her body's clues... hell, if you're giving her the business like you are supposed to be, she won't be able to form any real words WHILE you're gettin it on. Still, be a man about it and follow up with some questions.
#2, BE PATIENT! Even for those of us that do know how to pleasure ourselves, sometimes we just take a little longer than you might think... take your time and give her want she needs.
#3 Go Downtown!!! If you are one of the last left that just won't do it, or you're holding out b/c SHE won't return the favor, then shame on the both of you!!!
One caveat to all this... someone once told me that women fall in love from their NaNa...I'm not saying I whole-heartedly agree with that, but if you perscribe to that school of thought then make sure that you plan to have her around for a bit before you go all out ... otherwise you'll get yourself into a host of trouble. As Alexyss K. Taylor says..."Dick will make you slap somebody" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynDCVG7Qn70
I agree with you Dutchess. All points are valid. But I think we are leaving one very important point of the conversation out - some women just don't or rarely orgasm from sex...period.
So you could be knocking her back out and making her speak in tongues, and as much as the both of you are working it, she just might not get there. Based on the last statics I read, less than 40% of women get there from sex which makes The Dutchess' point #3 even more crucial.
But just because she doesn't get the big O from your big "D," that doesn't mean she's not feelin you...she just might be one of the many women who just doesn't get off that way. However, that does not mean that you can slack off on the attempts to make her toes curl, because you can trust that O or no O, we still are enjoying that hair pulling, @ss smacking, back scratching, head board breaking f#*k!
And to those men and women out there that still don't give head, could you please identify yourselves by wearing some sort of sign or bracelet so that those men and women who are ready to get down with theirs will know to keep steppin when they see you coming!
I definitely believe that communication is key. I know my spots, and I let my man know when he is hitting it. I have like 6-7 mini orgasms and 3-4 big ones. After the first time we had sex, we talked about what we both did that made each other reach our climax. We included some things we can improve, and so when we had sex again, it was 10 times better. Of course the oral in the beginning help a lot to get them areas more sensitive to touch.
So just talk about it before you hit the sheets, allow the info to marinate a bit.
pay attention when in the bed!! no matter how hard she tries to, her body can't lie!! being attentive to the shifts and shivers of her body and focusing on those things that give her pleasure will undoubtedly create a more enjoyable sexual experience all around!! don't be afraid to try new things and step out of the comfort zone of missionary, doggy style or cowgirl(reverse cowgirl)!! be creative in your endeavors of pleasure and don't be selfish!! experiment a bit and have fun while doing it!!
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For me personally, its all about pleasing my girl. If she doesn't orgasm its a problem. I'd have to disagree about the love making though. Yeah, its sensual and soft...almost caramel like, but you can get a girl to orgasm. You're right though most girls I've dealt with like when I go all Thunderdome on 'em, but the most important thing...for me is to make sure she gets that feelin'.
The problem itself lies with men. They simply don't give a f*ck if she does or not. Women, you have to know what gets you off and if he ain't doin it right...check 'em. Nothin' hurts a man more than a kick to the ego.
ciao ~KF
first lady, thank you. People who aren't willing to give head aren't willing to swallow their own distaste (no pun intended lol) and pleasure their partner for the sole reason of PLEASURING THEIR PARTNER... and on top of that, shit, it should be fun for you, making someone squirm and moan and all that.
The problem with men isn't that they just don't CARE, they just don't care after the first time their woman doesn't come. They just assume that she doesn't and they stop trying.
Oh I can't STAND a selfish man.
I wrote a blog about this one. Ladies, men aren't responsible for your orgasm. Plain and simple....get yours or be unsatisfied...stop faking it. Ladies, a man isn’t responsible for your orgasm. We are all take charge kind of girls. We dictate our own paths in life and go for what we want. What makes the bedroom any different? When you first started sexin your new boo….didn’t you have to learn his body and find out what makes him tick? Honey, he has to do the same thing for you.
Every woman is not the same. He may be working on what got his last conquest off. That may have worked for her….but does nothing for you. If you play along then you are letting the previous woman rob you of your fun and good times. Every time you fake it your cheating yourself.
Check out the article on The P.O.S.H. Life
http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/07/ladies-own-your-orgasm.html/
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I'm not playing along with nothing. Once I realized I was capable of getting off I was all over that so that when my next partner came along I was quick to be like let's try this, let's try that, put my leg where oh okay! Yes ladies...a little experimentation goes a loooong way.
It's weird for me to read about dudes who are not into pleasuring their partners. It's actually kind of stupid. I was always into it because it was the #1 way to keep good nameans (what we called sex in college) flowing your way. You make ole girl holler and she'll come back for seconds and maybe she'll tell a friend too.
I have to say this one is on point! I also encourage men to step up their game. If men dont do what it takes to take care of the women, they will find a brotha that will. The best orgasms for a woman happen when she is mentally and emotionally stimulated. There is no denying that.
And ladies need to pick their lovers better. If you aren't being satisfied.. take a look at the brotha you got hooked up with. You chose him. Make better choices to get the good luv'n
Oral is where it's at, period. For me, I'd much rather give than receive. There's so much power in how it can make a woman feel that I don't know how more cats aren't doing it. I have podnas, who to this day, refuse to eat p****, but I tell all of them that they're gonna lose their women, sooner or later, because women want to be satisfied sexually, period.
It's 2008...time for all men to get off our high horses, and do what it takes to keep your woman's sexual appetite where she wants it to be. You gotta be able to satisfy your lady, and more often than not, givin' them head will get them to The Big O. At the same time, you gotta know what you're doing once you're down there!
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