1/24/10

Take it off


Do you love your birthday suit? I love mine and I'm not your typical definition of sexy, but I'd be damned if you told me otherwise. See I was thinking about how women don't always love themselves while men usually do. Women are too worried about looking like someone on television, while men usually walk around being themselves and settling for what they can get. Now don't get me wrong, some of us do push for better things but many don't. So why do women feel like this and what can men do about it.

First thing's first, there is a double standard in this world. Women have it a lot harder than men, until the women are of higher quality. See low quality women are happy to get attention but once a woman knows her self worth it becomes a problem. These higher class women can be out right evil to men sometimes (shame on you). So what we need is for the average woman to know that she is much more. Men this is important because you want a strong woman by your side. What we as men need to do is help build our women not break them down. Men are quick to murder a woman's self esteem to help ourselves.

I want our women to love themselves instead of judging themselves. You are meant to be great in your own way, not like some plastic model. Men we need to help our women, help them know that they are beautiful. So who are you and how great is your birthday suit?

13 Comentários:

Anesidora said...

Mine is pretty flipping schweet actually. It's not video girl caliber, but the fans aren't complaining, so I'm cool with my perfect imperfections.

Nicki Sunshine said...

My birthday suit is depleting. I've got to be honest here! I've been eating complete crap since my mama got sick and it shows!

As soon as she comes home from the hospital and I can stop living on the run, exercise will be back in order and McDonald french fry, Sonic vanilla milk shake eating will be tossed.

I've never been video chick status... went from rail thin modelesque to this now... and never got complaints. I WILL walk around naked in a hot second. Men will never know self consciousness exists here, it's strictly internal ;)

mrsFAB said...

My birthday suit is not what it was 3 years ago.

"But I still look good!"- Whitney Houston in 'Waiting to Exhale'

I can't front like I will stick to a diet with the holidays coming... so January 1st, I will be on the bandwagon with everyone else!

@ Nicki Sunshine...
I can relate. My papaFAB is sick and it sure can take a toll on you. I will keep you in my prayers.

Nicki Sunshine said...

@Mrs. Fab: Thanks lady. I really appreciate that. I'm praying for you too.

J. McFly said...

See how MrSwagger.com brings people together and this was an article about being naked. lol

Princess0889 said...

I like the way I look naked. I may not be video girl status but skinny is just as sexy.

JEM said...

Man...I needed this. I was just sitting here thinking about mine and how much I don't like it. I feel bloated, energyless and blah...but don't worry Fit Club will work for me :)

The Dutchess said...

My birthday suit is perfect because it's mine and I'd wear it around all day if I could. Sure we can all use to tone here and there, but we all need to be comfortable in our own skin. And ladies, though McFly has a point that the fellas need to verbalize it more often, you can't wait around for anybody to tell you how beautiful you are. Be fierce on your own terms.

Untouched Jewel said...

I will be honest with you, I do and don't like my birthday suit at the same time. How crazy is that?! LOL. Anyway, I like my birthday suit, because I'm not dime thin, well put together for 4'9 at 136 lbs, and the menfolk dig the size. I don't like it, because I still have some baby and food fat left to take off, and I'm not feeling the whole bulge over my jeans type thing either. Not the business.
If I could walk around in my birthday suit, I would do it. Unfortunately I can't, because I have male children in the house and wish not to traumatize them.

J. McFly said...

Yes only traumatize grown men not little men in trainig.

Bahama said...

Um? I like my b-day suit, i like it so much matter of fact i sleep in it. I'm tad bit on the conceited side sometimes, but I know my worth and I'll be damned if I let some man tell me or treat me less than what I think i'm worth.

eboni said...

Great post first off. Was feeling just about everything that was said about dudes having it easier than us females. The whole male to female ratio is just ridiculous.

As for my birthday suit, its a work in progress right now. I could still easily get away with walkin around in my bday suit, but of course I have my flaws that I need to work on. I got more than enough @ss and tits. If I had the time 2 go work out tighten up sum areas I'd b good 2 go.

maddsexycool said...

let just say, don't come over unexpectedly when i have the house to myself! i love me some me, tummy and all. i'm naked any chance i get some time to myself, it's more comfortable. and no one has ever complained.

love the confidence of the women commenting! we look damn good don't we!

hope you all had a great Thanksgiving!