Freaky.. Nasty.. Slutty.. Sensual.. Open.. Uninhibited. What do you call being open and expressive with your sexual acts?Until recently, I had no problems sharing my own random acts of freakiness if asked**, as I'm someone who's comfortable with my sexuality and secure in my own skin. Lately, I've been in increasingly more and more conversations and interactions with people that are now very conservative in their ways. This may simply be their public face, but something tells me that their bedrooms never get steamy, out of control, nor experimental. Could it be that while 2008 was the Year of the Stonecold Freak, 2009 is the Year of the Puritan? Hmm....
That's not to say that you should stop dealing with handcuffs, or popping a well-pedcured toe into your mouth every now and then (or everytime you hit the sheets), but maybe you should be more discreet about it if you're like me. McFly had a post not too long ago urging us to make more attempts at fitting in and avoiding clinging to the outsider role. This concept is along those lines. If you've felt comfortable enough to mention engaging in analingus, yet 9 out of 10 faces react like they've drank sour milk, then let that go and keep that a secret for your special "booty baby". Remember [unless it goes against your morals and values] when in Rome, do as the Romans.
Do you wear your freakiness like a badge of honor or do you play the innocent lamb until the bodies hit the sheets? Let's hear it!
Don't share other folk's sexual behaviors if they're not present to consent. Putting ppl's business out in public is never cool.
Don't be the weirdo volunteering crazy stories if the environment is not fit for it. Ex- I dont want to hear about how you love to engage in buttplay while I'm eating breakfast.
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lmao @ buttplay. i speak about it in my blog. but not in major detail. all the people is that theres only ONE man gettin it and that i enjoy gettin it from him lol. there's nothing wrong with being comfortable about it but you do need to show some discretion towards your audience.
Honestly, I'm a gentleman and I don't kiss and tell. I was always taught that the kats who talked about what they would do to "so and so" or how much they were getting, really wasn't getting any in the first place. I agree with the saying "As in Rome do as the Romans". Time and place for everything.
Man Listen! I flash my Certified Freak Card like it aint nothing. Chicks like to know what they are dealin wit before they do the do. Being down for whatever got my body count at new heights
Wow. I would say I can be freaky (check around I've said some crazy ish) but it's like why in the heck do you want any prospects to know what I'm capable of (just yet anyway)...maybe 2009 is not the year of the Puritan but the year of the Surprise Freak.
Yes to Surprise freak. I talk about my conquest with close friends but not always in detail. I was taught that by telling your boy all about what some girl let you do then he's just gonna go do the same with her. So you just lost a person off your team.
I am pretty quiet about my s3x acts and would prefer a man who is also... There is nothing worse than meeting a man and on our first date, he's telling me all the ways he will smack it up, flip it and rub it down. Surprise me when that time comes... If you run your mouth, then you have to live up to this superb reputation that you've put on yourself. And if you don't, I WILL clown.
"Yes to Surprise freak. I talk about my conquest with close friends but not always in detail. I was taught that by telling your boy all about what some girl let you do then he's just gonna go do the same with her. So you just lost a person off your team."
Yep-I even had an ex who told his girl she had "bomb a$s pu$$y." She runtelldat to some other dude...now what was he supposed to do? If I were a man I certainly would have been like let me get up in it. I think advertisement can end up ruining relationships...as Nic pointed out blabbing can lose you mad cool points if you last only say...4 min.
I think there is a time and place for everything. What kills me is when people rebuke a certain act knowing they are down for the cause. If you do it and you wanna keep it on the low then cool, just don't say anything about it.
Personally I never discuss the details of my sex life. I know what I like to do and I have no quarrels about letting anyone know. But when discussing what I do with a certain individual, that is between me and her.
Y'all wild.
Didn't you all learn from your past? The ones who talk about it ain't the ones you gotta worry about. Its the quiet ones. Bringing home random "moisturizers" and "toys" and got more porn than you do.
I'm just saying, be careful of all. And yes, no being gangster or discussing buttplay during breakfast with bacon, thanks.
-Ed.
www.edthesportsfan.com
Its true, it is always the quiet ones.
"Year of the Surprise Freak" huh? Damn, some of my favorite exploits have come from either prior knowledge of the freak factor of the girl or curiosity built up from a "freak test" convo early in the "relationship".
one of my fav quotes is:
"A woman must be a lady in the living room, a chef in the kitchen and a courtesan in the bedroom."
I am what you described minus the glasses. I don't consider myself a freak, I'm just very sexual.
There is a double standard when it comes to men and women. So men... do what ya want. Talk what ya want. But ladies, LADIES, keep all the info about your good-good to yourself. Be a lady-like wife/girlfriend in the streets and a you-know-what in the sheets! LOL
mrsFAB- You just gave me an idea for another entry. Thanks
Dont believe the hype homie! All that quiet shyt is well practiced act. Some of you motherfuckas need a freakin Emmy!
There is a reason you are in a room with a bunch of people, and there is a reason such questions come up. Its not like yall were in the library studying the effect of gravity and someone says, "do you know where the g spot is" ... NONE of this shyt is by accident homie.
Now to your fitting in comment? I have never subscribed to that theory. "In a world that teaches you to fit in, i strive to stand out" - that was the motto in my HS, and i live by that to this day.
Here is the Funny part, everyone nowadays seems to feel like the more weird they are the cooler it is, so everyone is too weird now, being conservative and hush hush seems to be the rebellious thing to do. GO FIGURE!
Vegas - I always subscribed to the theory of not following the crowd too. Being planted in the far left field looks to be the in thing right now. So if everyone is embracing their sexuality and talking up their freakiness, then the in thing will be the complete opposite.
I say its best to underpromise and then overdeliver.
I think its best not to promise at all!! Do what you say your going to. Like Kat Willams say "Every man needs to know their stroke count". LOL!!!
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