My boys and I got on the subject of infidelity and who should be held more liable. This is the tricky part though. Your lady or man is f*cking or has f*cked your best friend or someone in your camp. One of my good friends,(will call him CT) said that he'll hold his lady more responsible for the act versus his friend. His argument was that the woman makes the decision to f*ck a guy and will manipulate the situation to her advantage. His argument when it came to us(his boys) was that and I quote "At the end of the day, N*ggas are going to N*ggas." That means, for the ebonics impaired, if a woman presents a situation to screw, men are going to screw. I totally disagreed with this. It basically came off to me that if a lady drops her panties for me, I'm now under her spell and have lost all control. It was like I didn't have any self control or couldn't take control of the situation. That's bullsh*t!!! I hold both parties equally responsible. If my girlfriend, fiance and or wife slept with my best friend or one of my boys that's in my inner circle, both are cut off, period. I might get the bat and take it to the dude. I just believe that if you're someone's friend, you don't do something like that. I don't care how strong the chemistry is or how drunk you may get, if your boy bangs your girl, he isn't your friend, period. CT was stating that if I or any one of us in the crew banged his fiance', he'll hold her responsible, but still kick it with me or anyone else in the crew. That bros before hoes" sh*t is for high school. I just don't agree with that. If your boy is wrong, then that dude is wrong. If your lady is wrong then she's wrong..PERIOD! My argument was that even though the opportunity has presented itself, if your man is your man, 100 grand, then he wouldn't act on the opportunity. Another one of the homies(we'll call him D4) stated that he actually walked in one of his frat brothers banging his girl...In his house..IN HIS BED! What, that's crazy!!! He stated that he was salty at his man for like 2 days and then proceeded to "share" the young lady with his frat brother...with the n*gga that she cheated on him with in the first place. Who does that? That's some Jerry Springer sh*t. Needless to say, the conversation went on for at least 3 hours and ended in a stalemate.SWAGSTARS, (Sound off) Who is more responsible in this situation...Your friend or significant other?
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I agree with you, both parties are equally responsible.
This right here, "At the end of the day, N*gga's are going to N*gga's," is a cop out. If that is the case, we should just started expecting the worst and hoping for the best in everybody.
If my girl cheating with my mans, i'm gun butting EVERYONE. Nuff said
In his bed? Wth?
I agree with you, both are responsible. Everyone has a choice. I don't care how long we've been friends or how long me and my significant other have been together. If BOTH of you do something disrespectful like that, then BOTH of you are wrong.
I totally agree as well...both parties are equally wrong.
Why is it that men seem to always blame the women and it's totally up to us. Guys can say no as well...shoot its happened to me before. Both parties have the power of decision and the wise decision should be made.
Plus...how could you even trust your boy/girl after that? Would you want to bring any future gf's/bf's around them? I would wonder if they would try to bang them too. That's the upmost disrespect and grounds for immediate termination of both parties. Straight cut off.
GNR!...both are responsible, However, look at it like this...bf-gf having sex in itself is like a marriage without one (like a bond that can't be broken, esp if the sex is good). Therefore, they trust eachother to be equally honest about EVERYTHING. This is a bond no FRIEND can break or uphold (if the bf-gf are TRULY loyal). With that said...I understand why the woman might be held more ACCOUNTABLE for her actions than the friend. Not only did the gf cheat but no telling how much. She opened her legs to the friend and opened the bf to possibly catching GOD knows what kinda STD if it was unprotected... and even if it was...gloves don't protect against ev-er-y-thang. I'm just sayin.
the hell..who thee hell ...nevermind..Im with you all the way
Aint no love for the babe... She knew she wanted to bang my dude and nine times outta ten all she had to do was ask
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