Fire your Representative!!!

SwagStars....Whats the word?! Its a been long time since I've written anything. I've missed ya'll. I was going thru somethings and now I'm ready to write. I hope everybody is enjoying the holiday season. Now down to business. Ladies...I know its a lot of talk out there about men not being completely honest about who they are and what their intentions maybe. A lot of brothas do front about career, financial and educational status to impress a lady. By the time the young lady finds out the homie isn't who he says he his, she has most likely been intimate with the young man and now is emotionally attached. Is that the homies fault for leading you on, Yes it is. What gets me is that alot of young ladies do the exact same thing and thats not discussed. Alot of ladies lie about who they "REALLY" are. Now lets make something clear...Your career, education and personal accolades don't define who you are. They're in my opinion, added bonuses and are a testament to your hardwork and commitment to achieve your goals. Being in a sorority or frat doesn't define who you are. So this begs the question ladies...Who are you??? When I approach you at a happy hour, club or at the gas station, am I meeting the real you?? Am I meeting a Lisa or her Representative?? Yeah, ladies...You too have an alter ego, a liaison if you will that you also unleash on us to either impress us or deter us. I've asked the ladies..."Why do you act like that?" Why are you so "stand-offish?" Why do you flirt when you have no intentions of kicking it with the gentlemen. Alot of ladies say they've been hurt so much that they're tired of the bull shit. They want to give men a taste of how it feels to be led on and manipulated. Are we high school?? We going tit for tat?? I'm not condoning the brothas for not keeping it real but ladies, thats not a valid excuse. I understand, but is that fair??? Should I take you seriously now because the person that I'm meeting isn't the real you??? Are you lying as well?? I'm not stating that you should spill out your guts on the first phone call. I'm not stating that you should give your credit score on the first date. Just keep it real. I know a gentleman who was "kicking it" with a young lady for about 3 yrs and didn't see the real her until the last 3 weeks of their interactions with one another. She had her reasons for not showing him who she really was, but he opened up to her along time ago. But it is what it is. Ladies, I think that it would be a lot easier for you if you get out of your own way and just be you from the jump. If your silly and goofy be that way. If your serious and driven, show and express that. If your a insecure, lying bitch, hey well be that from jump. A good friend of mine always says...."Finish how you start"!!!

SWAGSTARS....SOUND-OFF!!!