Swagstars, whats good? I'm sorry I keep taking these hiatus but...I'm busy son!!! LOL!!! I hope everybody had a great weekend. Now down to business. I want to ask the whole MrSwagger.com universe a question. Lets say you were dating someone and you were really feeling this person. You've met the family, he or she has met yours. You've sacrificed for this person and they've made some concessions for you. You've been intimate and protection was used(not always). Now the kicker is this...They have incurable S.T.D. They're reason for not telling you is that they didn't want to lose you. Now, you really care about this person, I mean you're damn near in love. How would you react??? What would you say??? What would you do??? A friend of mine just went through that same situation. Even though he was upset because she let him know her status, the homie still didn't judge the young lady. He was there for her and tried to encourage her and help her get through her situation. Could you be like that??? I know some folk who would've tried to kill someone for that. I mean, real talk, thats some selfish shit. Not telling someone your status because YOU don't want them to judge you or YOU don't want to lose them. You can go to jail for that shit in some states. It was a young man in Ohio who was procescuted for giving folk HERPES and another lady on the east coast was jailed for having unprotected sex and she had HIV/AIDS. I'm sure its more situations than we know of. The shit is serious. Honestly, I hate using condoms, but after what happened to my dude, Its never a time I don't strap up now. Some folk got shit and don't know it. A good friend told me that only person that has your best interest at heart is you. Very simple but very profound...SwagStars...SOUND-OFF!!!
1/25/10
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I was in a similar situation. However, I did not become intimate with my boyfriend until I told him about my status which was three months after we met. He was very understanding about my not wanting to have sex initially and then when I told him my status, he was shocked but at the same time, I believe he was trying to be sensitive to me because of how difficult it was for me to even talk about it. I remember feeling really scared that he would completely reject me and we would be over. We talked at length about what I had and we researched together so that he could feel comfortable being intimate with me. It's been two years now and we're happily in love. With regard to the woman, I don't think it was right for her to withhold that information and still sleep with her boyfriend. I commend the guy for still being there for her. I hope their relationship continues to grow. Peace & Blessings
This blog struck a cord with me. It definitely wasn't right for the young woman not to disclose, but I can empathize with her because I have been in her shoes before. The telling part is one of the most difficult things to do, but it is one of the most important and necessary admissions in order to walk in truth and honesty. I too hope they can build upon that. Be safe folks!
I know that I'm late, but I'm new to this site. My stomach turned after reading this. I honestly think that she should've told him. If I were in his shoes, it would take me some time to get over it. Honesty is the best policy. Even though I would give my partner the side eye, if I really loved him, then I would do my homework. At the end of the day, even though she did not want to be judged, she put herself first. She should've told him because he deserves the chance to decide whether or not he wants to deal with the situation, and how he wants to approach it..
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