Wifin' in the club (TiffanyonEverything.wordpress.com)

The article below is from a new blog "Tiffany on Everything." Enjoy

I have a boyfriend and he’s great. What I especially love about him is that we both like to have a good time and we can do it together without “wif’in’ in the club” because neither he nor I want to pay anybody 20 dollars. I know some couples dread being in the same club, bar, lounge, with their other half. The reason is it usually results in the following scenario:

Chick is hugging up on dude while he is trying to create distance between them.
Chick gets mad and then starts dancing with some other guy inappropriate. Dude tries to act like he doesn’t care and starts flirting it up with some other girl. Chick gets really mad and confronts dude while he is flirting with the other girl
Then they break-up. That’s no fun and if that was a risk I had to face everything I went to the club with my guy I wouldn’t want him to show up either. But that’s no way to live. Instead if the guy and girl can abide by a few rules they can have a good time and those rules are as follow:

Have other people there each of you know. You should come together and leave together but once you’re there you can immediately go your own way to say hello to the people you know. This allows both of you to give each other space without any chance on conflict.

Frequently check up on each other. Not in an accusatory or cautionary way but in a caring and loving way. Meaning, Guys if you notice your girl glass is empty take her to the bar and buy her another drink. Now, you have a little one-on-one time. And Girls, when a hot sexy song comes on go ahead and rub your little booty on his thang-thang. He would be very appreciative. Now Girls, only dance with him for one song. Remember: give him space.

When it comes to dancing. Clearly differentiate between the way you dance with your mate and how you dance with other people. If you like to use your hands and rub on their body than don’t use your hands when dancing with anybody else. Girls: No bending over, dropping it like it’s hot etc. Guys: No bending girls over or letting them “freak” you.

Guys: your girl wants to make sure that everyone in that club knows you are with her. So you are going to need to show her a little affection. It’s simple and it won’t make you uncomfortable. Hold her face in your hands look at her for three seconds and give her a quick peck on the lips tell her to “go have fun” and when she walks away give her a light pat on the ass. Done.

Lastly, both of you would need to have a block of time (about 20 mins) or so just for the two of you. I suggest towards the end of the night, when the DJ plays the slow and old school joints.

Follow the rules and you can really have your girl or guy in the club and keep you money in your pocket! Love to hear your comments on this one.

T on E